My ex and I have been hanging out again like going to the movie's and things.
One night he wanted me to come over at 11:30 at night saying that I can sleep in when he goes to work and he'll leave me his key. I didn't go over because it was late though.
I hung out with him last night and we talked about his work, both of our financial things like 401k then he asked me if I had one. Why would he ask me that? Then he mentioned that he wanted to get a house.
When it was time for him to go to work I asked him if I could sleep in there like he wanted me to that one day and he said "I rather you not" and when I asked him why he could not give me a reason why.
Why did he not want to give me the key even though he likes me? Or I think he does?
I'm confused now?
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that guy has no intention to commitment toward you, which mean you are technically not together. I know you loved him, but why you keep looking for an excuses to convince yourself that he's still in love with you?
sorry, but I'll be honest with you. your relationship became %90 friends with benefits and %10 love (only from your side).
real love is not about sex, cuddle or financials talk or come over at 11:30 at night.
real love is expressing your feelings freely (whenever you want), choosing daily to be committed to sustaining your relationship and care about keeping you secure, not asking you to come over night to takes care of his house while he gone to work... that's called disrespect.
real love is when you don't have to ask these questions, then you truly are in love.
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