It's been coming for a while, but it's tough because we live together, have kids, consigned a car loan etc. I was going to do it soon because my mom wants to move into a place with us so I figured if I did it before we moved I could move in with my mom and he could move back home. We've pretty much already agreed that if we ever split I would keep the kids and I would let him see them whenever. It's just I don't know how to time it. I want to tell him today but he has the stomach flu.. I have already tried to work things out with him many times. He refuses counseling and refuses to see that something is wrong. I wouldn't do this if I wasn't sure. I just hate hurting people so it's hard to actually do the act. Is there ever a prime time that makes it easier to handle? Thanks.
Most Helpful Guy
wow... that is really a bummer, it depends on the person... if I had to pick a moment I would have to say morning... wait are you talking about easier on him or you?
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Most Helpful Girl
Honestly there is no "good" time, a break up involving so many things causes so many headaches but you will be 100% happier and the complicated things are only temporary, you had already agreed about what you'd do about the children, just because he has the flu doesn't make him paralyzed!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE