My husband and I have been having problems; is has been verbally mean and even threatening in the recent past. I moved out not quite 2 weeks ago and I want to file for divorce. He knows that this is a thought of mine, but he still believes that we can work things out; I don't want to even try anymore... I've completely checked out. How do I tell him that I am filing for divorce? Do I just file and let him find out when he gets the papers? He is also very depressed and I am concerned about what he might do to me or himself.
Most Helpful Guy
ooooh... husband problems.
i was gonna say that saying "its over" usually tends to work, but in your case... putting down the divorce papers on the table does the trick...
Im sorry about the situation, im against divorce. but if a woman (the usually more committed partner) wants to leave something as deep as marriage... it must be a bad situation.
Most Helpful Girl
Well if he's expecting it because he knows you've been thinking about it, you really aren't responsible for what he does. Just send him the papers and if he's smart he won't be shocked, you've already made great steps in getting away.0