We had a short term relationship (2 months me thinks), which ended because of distance as I started at a faculty. However, we've been NC for almost 5 months. She also blocked me on everything for an unknown reason. I didn't cheat or anything, but she seemed pissed when I last spoke to her. I believe there was some shit talking behind my back from our mutual friend who was always jealous of me. I really don't care though. Told her to contact me if she wanted to get back together. She said she was done with me.
Then she blocked/unblocked/reblocked me. I didn't reach out though. Strict NC. A few days ago her name popped up on mutual friend's fb wall. She also posted some emotional stuff that day. How she hates when people who love each other can't even bring themselves to talk.
I mean she could have reached out for me if she wanted to talk. It was her who blocked me on everything and I respected that. The ball is in her court now. I really liked the girl but won't feed her ego so she could just reject me again.
The thing is she is a couple of years younger and might be scared to come back? Or it has everything to do with her pride? I guess I'll never know...
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When girls get insecure about something, or just plain lonely, sadly they often look to an ex to feel secure, pretty, interesting, or worth someone's time again. It is completely selfish, and not fair at all. So if I were you, I wouldn't invest too much thought into it. She is probably just using you for her own ego and security. And girls are also under the illusion that their exes are always going to be in love with them on some level. :p0
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