Later he started having mood, behavioral, and drinking issues and we started living separately. I then caught him cheating with several women... but most recently it has come to light that he is expecting another baby so soon and the mother is in high school.
The girl's mother knows about the situation but hasn't reported it. He is living with the girl and her family :/... he's 30! He apparently talks negatively about me to these people and he is putting on an act like he isn't an alcoholic crazy asshole.
I am so disturbed that I can barely function day to day. Up until I found out we were still talking on a daily basis and on good terms again.
I've been struggling as a single mom and now I get to have the wonderful feeling of knowing that the man who is supposed to be my partner is totally incompetent and sick... is this really what my baby and I get... I don't know what my question is but I think I should change my number and... vomit? Is the Jerry Springer show still on? I don't even know how to process this.
Most Helpful Guy
It is really time to lawyer up and get a judgement for child support. Whatever else is going on, your child needs a source of support beyond what you alone can give it. During all the legal work, his current situation will probably become public. And do not back off if he suddenly tries to "make nice". That would just be him trying to get out of the legal responsibilities.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, if he's not stepping up and he's that bad with becoming an alchoholic. If the girl isn't 18 or got pregnant before 18 report his ass. You can do it so it's anonymous the girls mother should have done it herself. File for child support. If he goes and lives with someone else doesn't mean he doesn't have to support his kid. And lastly get this guy or tell him he needs to get help. No one needs a drunk in their life. Or for a father. You and your baby desrve better , he won't step up so take matters into your own hands.
It's okay to feel upset, just remember though it's about you and your baby and what's best for you guys not him he's an idiot