On the other hand it seems like some are labeled weak also for forgiving too quickly or being door mats. Seems like a catch-22
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Their is a double standard women are expected to take the man backed specially I'f their are children involved or just married. And then she is blamed for gaining weight, not having as much sex as he wants... etxwhereas men are encouraged to leave that "slut", no one says may be he isn't emotionally satisfying her, sexually or she isn't physically attracted anymore. I think it depends on the person, can your forgive and can that person seek help. their isn't a one answer to this, we tend to paint all relationships the same and treat them all the same and this is probably why they are so unsuccessful.