Having a hard time dealing with it. Everyone tells me to move on and that I deserve better (which is what he said to me as well) but I just miss him. I probably sound desperate but I need to vent my feelings. I'm too nervous and scared to contact him and I feel like he should reach out. Recently, it was my birthday and he did text around midnight wishing me a great day. But nothing since. I need closure. I need to be myself again. Opinions?
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I don't know. Honestly, I'm in a similar situation. Except my ex is extremely immature and treats me like I did something wrong to him even though he broke up with me. It's been 6 months since our break up and as far as I know, he doesn't miss me. He's never contacted me. He refused to give me closure and treats me horribly.
I think him wishing you a happy birthday at least tells you that you're on his mind and that just maybe, he values you enough to remember it was your birthday. Don't make the mistake of contacting him like I did. If he cares enough, he will text again.1