My ex and I have been broken up almost half a year now. He has been talking non-stop bad things about me and our relationship to people, and there are times where I'll meet someone that has a negative prior judgment of me and doesn't really give me a chance. There are friendships that I thought I had made during that time that basically fell apart because they took his word over mine. I did my best to never once say anything bad about him to others. Sometimes I admit I would say things out of frustration, but it was never on a constant basis like this. It hurts that he's painting such a horrible picture of me to so many people I don't even know just because he says I made him so miserable. I feel really embarrassed and I'm trying not to let it get to me, but I'm finding it really difficult because he really put my business out there, things that I always thought would be in confidence between him and I. He's also put a lot of our relationship out there. I feel like I'm on some sort of reality show.
Can anyone provide some insight as to why he is doing this and how I should deal with it?
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He is trying to hurt you did you do something to hurt him... payback is a beach..
Is this in a school or work environment, then possibley you may have legal recourse, harrasment is something you can deal with. What he is doing will reflect badly on him in the long run if he does this to you then he will probably do this to his future partners, its sucks when someone you trust goes out of their way to do it. You haven't really explained why he is doing it, people just don't do this out of spite just for the sake of spite.0