He got accepted into the Air Force and that's when he broke up with me. All I want to do is support him because I am so proud of him for doing something he has always wanted to do. Yet, he's cutting off a lot of ties to people back home. Basically everyone but his best friend and his family. So, that includes me.
In the last month after we've been broken up things haven't been well. I have turned into a bit of a GNAT. I sent him a message every day trying to establish some reguluar communication for when he leaves. But he was busy. I understand that. I also understand why he doesn't want to do LDR. He was hurt by one in the past, training is 18 months long and communication is sparce on base. Besides this, my two best friends moved overseas to work and aren't talking to me, a good friend told me I wasn't "worth it" and so they won't talk to me. This all happened in the last two months and now I'm at university and I'm not coping. The class I'm struggling in, my tutor is my ex's best friend. The one that he will stay in contact with.
I do love this guy and he knows that I want to get back together when he comes home. But right now, I just want to be his friend right now. I'm on day 7 of No Contact after telling him that he did promise to remain friends and keep in contact. He knows that all I want is one email a week. He comes home in August, 2017. What should I say to him after 30 days? What can I do to one day get him back. Especially since we were really happy together, we want the same things in life an