I have recently just split from my boyfriend after 2 years. I love him very much but we were arguing over different issues (he's 31 and I'm 22), including whether I wanted kids or not, im unsure and he definitely wants them, he wants to see his mates who do drugs again (I know he'd be doing it with them), put his female best friend before me and go out raving (doing them then as well). He said he'd stopped doing drugs for me and felt better for it but kept saying that I'd changed him. I said at the offset l can't be with someone who does them so he was left with a choice and said he'd stopped for me. On New Years we got drunk, he got emotional and said I don't have any friends and I've sacrificed so much for you, I've stopped doing drugs. I never brung any of this up at all, it just all came out! Do you think maybe at first he was happy being me then he started to miss his crazy raving and drug lifestyle? It seems like he wanted to have both and can't cope without the other lifestyle. All I know is I can't be with someone who needs drugs in their life.
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Did u break with him?
The age difference doesn't matter, but I would think someone his age would have outgrown drugs, raves and take a serious relationship... A little more serious. You sound more mature than he does.
About children, its normal for you to not be sure about what you want at this time. And what is up with this thing of putting his female best friend before you.
I woukd have done the same thing if I was in your shoes.1
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