Hi guys, I have a lot of topics about my last relationship, but'd say that it'was the hardest one I've got ever in my life.
My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, but I'm still thinking about, her every single day, miss her, still love her and remind to myself for the shared time we've got together.
I tried to contact her couple times, she said that she continued and that she overcome me.
We we're being together for more than 4 years.
Couple days ago I typed to her again, saying to her that I want only to talk a little bit.
So she responded to me :
1." I don't want to talk and see with you, I'm not hurted, there's nothing to clear out with you.
Please go growth and leave me alone, to live my 'new' life, I already have somebody next to me (cred : this is lie, couple friends told me about it ).
2. The only problem I have is you (me)
3. Stopp reaching me out, you don't understand & overdo, the problem is that you didn't continued
4. I do not fuss about anything but I really overdo.
Also said those things to one of our mutual friends :
"I'm feeling bad about that boy (me).. but there is nothing to do, he didn't overcome me yet, but we're unable to be together" something like this.
Is it possible she to love me or have any feelings still? or she just doesn't care about me...
I really want her back, and almost done everything, without sucess for now.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm sorry you seem like a genuinely good guy, but she has made it clear that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. You have done all you could and if she wanted you back she would have taken you back in a heartbeat after all your fighting for her. You have been together for a long time, so of course you can't just forget about her. It will probably take time but you will move on eventually. Take a break and when you are ready again you will meet new people. Someday you will have another relationship and when you think back you'll be happy you broke up, because you'll realize you weren't meant for each other.1
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like she still has feelings but it doesn't matter now, you guys broke up. Stay the fuck away. Every step you take towards her from now on, is a MISTAKE. She made it quite clear she doesn't want you anymore. Try to move on, 3 months is not much time, give 3 more months you'll get over her. You can't forget 4 years in 3 months.1