I went out with this guy 2 dates and he seemed great, almost too good to be true. But only 4 days of talking and he already wants to meet my parents, have sex, and be my boyfriend. I haven't been in a serious relationship so this seems way too fast for me. Funny because I always thought I would be the clinger. What's the best way to tell him I cannot do this type of relationship he wants?
Stage 5 Clinger, help?
What Guys Said 5
Just say "omg what a rookie mistake" lol he'll feel insecure tho0
Tell him, life is short in one hand but there's always time for everything and it's not good time in my life to have you as my boyfriend because I'm not knowing myself completely that I can go on with you or not.0
Take it slow, tell them you aren't looking for that or aren't ready yet0
Did you make out on either of the dates? What does "asking for sex" mean in his case?0
Sooner you tell him to slow down and take this slow the better but sounds like he wants something more serious sooner.0
What Girls Said 3
Just tell him how you feel0
Just say that he's moving too fast and it is pushing you away from him! He seems a little insecure wanting to lock you down so quickly. (that's just my opinion)
You are the price to him so either your way or no way, if he's too clingy.0
just tell him honestly like "listen I want to take things slow and I feel we're not on the same level right now"
From there you can see his reaction if he is willing to wait and try to get to know you or is just after sex etc.0