Should I be okay with my best friend and ex boyfriend possibly dating?
What Guys Said 2
Yes but if you aren't ok with it cut them out your life.
Honestly you have no choice but to let it go, because whether or not they date is not up to you. As for asking why he dumped you, you could try, I wouldn't object to that. Most likely though it's because he hooked up w the other girl, who is an idiot if she's quick to believe that he loves her. I honestly don't think he loved you, men don't jump into something that quick. It took me maybe 6 months to tell a girl I loved her. I think he was playing the both of you, you just happen to give in first. I'm sure you may have already slept w him as well, if you didn't then that may be pet of the reason he moved on to your bestie cause she was willing to give it up. Chances are she already like him as well to be letting him grab her T & A. If you want closure then yes I'd ask, he may not respond though or he may give you a false answer as to why. Someone once told me before, worrying is like sitting in a rocking chair, what's the point, it gets you no where. I'd consider letting it go mama, it's only going to stress you out, possibly affecting other potential relationships. The hardest thing a person can do in life is to forgive, but if you can then you're that much better off, free of him controlling you mentally because you're always concerned about him. Mentally if you can stop being slaves to others you'll be fine. Think about it.
What Girls Said 1
No, you should not be okay with this situation. She is not true friend that you can rely on if she chooses to embrace a situation that will ultimately dump salt into your wounds. If your friend decides to date your ex, then sever the friendship.
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