I haven't seen nor talked to her nor otherwise communicated with her in roughly four months.
And yet I still look at my phone more than once a day to see if she texted or called.
It was only yesterday that it REALLY hit me that she definitely will not contact me again. I felt the whole blow of the situation: that I've been expecting a text from her for the past four months, her being on my mind every day, and yet she has moved on and hasn't thought about me or thought about contacted me. Not only does the fact that she's moved on hurts, I also feel like a loser for wasting my time like this.
But I'm having trouble glancing at my phone without a sensation in my stomach. I've tried turning it off, but the sensation gets worst whenever I turn it back on in anticipation of her (imaginary) text.
A day after I communicated with her for the very last time, I shut off my phone for days at a time, thinking to myself: "Hah! Now if she texts me she won't get a reply because I'm forcing myself not to." Of course, that was pointless because she never texted me again anyway.
And I'm also having trouble expecting her to text me because there are several reasons for her to, i.e. stuff in the media that should remind her of me, the fact that she has a book she started reading that I gave her, stuff in my family she knew about that was going to happen, etc. But when she hasn't contacted me despite all that stuff, that's when it really sunk in yesterday.
But I'm having a really hard time fighting it.
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weve all been there. I had the same problem and I think of him day and night but try my best to move on. I hope I can run into him and see him and magically he will be delighted to see me and want to start over and ask me out and make me part of his life again. But I know its never gonna happen because he's such a stubborn egotistical guy he won't come after me. He's come up to me in the past to talk and see how I feel about him but in reality he plays games for ego boost and isn't serious about me, even though I was serious about him. He probably doesn't even know that because he never gave me the chance to open up to him and he didn't even get to know knowww me well enough. I don't know why I still love him, he was just so different when we first met, everything was so perfect...i don't know if I'm seeing his true shades come out or he just simply changed...but what I do know is that although itll be a miracle to see him come after me and make me his girl, I have just accepted the fact that he wont. He won't man up, he won't respect me as much, and he won't give me the feeling of security that I need, to let me know he will be there for me and love me just the way I love him.0