My girl & I were together for four years. We were talking about getting married, planning to move in together, looking at engagement rings, etc. Then she overshared a personal story with her friend that I worked with & I told her I wanted some space & I'd talk to her in a bit. Unfriended her & her friends on FB & Snapchat. Stopped talking to her completely. She called me in a week, apologizing & asking to talk about it, but I didn't answer. She tried again a couple of times, but I wouldn't talk to her. I decided it was over & she'd get the hint, right? She must have gotten it, because she stopped trying.
Well, two months later, I found myself looking up her Twitter, her blog every day. She had blocked me on FB. Even my friends couldn't find her when I asked them to look her up. She wrote about her new job. Her trips to the gym. But I was obsessed. So, I messaged her best friend and said I wanted to apologize. She told her friend (huge betrayal of my privacy on her friend's end) & my ex emailed me saying while she was angry that I went to her friend instead of talking to her, she'd still listen if I wanted to talk. I ignored it. I don't know what to say. I think she caught on to my cyberstalking, because she changed her Twitter handle & stopped updating her blog. I'm too embarrassed to go there now.
Should i apologize? Keep ignoring her?
Most Helpful Girl
The way of ignoring her was slightly immature. If you no longer love her and no longer see a future together be blunt. Tell her there is no chance. If you want to apologize for the way everything happened then send her the email, but be blunt that you no longer want her as your girlfriend.
If you want her back you need to swallow your pride and work through things slowly.
Whatever decision you make, be extremely blunt with her about it. It's only fair that you allow her to know the truth and either move forward with you, or without you.
p. s. tip - don't start an argument no matter what...0
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Most Helpful Guy
Way too many games! All of this has gone much too far to have a lot of hope to be able to get back together. At this point your choices seem to be to contact her directly to apologize for everything to make peace between you, or leave her alone entirely.0