My husband is obsessed with his PS4. It is driving me crazy. He sleeps every other night. He stays on that game for about 18 hours at a time. I work he does not. He used to help me around the house by cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids. Now I am not getting any of that. He left me before when he worked and I didn't because the house wasn't to his standards. We had a 1 child at the time. If any of her toys were laying around omg it was the end of the world. If I didn't do the dishes right after dinner. Its not like our house was a total disaster. He didn't even help with anything. But now the roles have switched. He still dont do anything. We now have 3 children and he does nothing. I work a full time job 3rd shift. But im still requried to do all the house work. Yet he is free to do nothing but play games and go out with his friends. Got 2 nights to ourselves a couple weeks ago and he spent it all on the damn game. I feel like I am just ready to end this marriage. I know nothing will change and it will all go back on being all my fault.
Most Helpful Guy
Im all for gaming, but in a Marriage and with kids and not working?
i believe in pulling your weight. if he ain't working, he should designate some time to take care of things around the house since he isn't working anymore.
I believe in marriage... so i wouldn't say go to the extreme just yet...
just have a talk with him (not yell it) talk to him and explain to hm how it would be nice if he did some stuff... and possibly paid attention to you from time to time. then give it time to sink in.
if things don't change.. then on to phase two.1
Most Helpful Girl
It could ruin any kind of relationship if they go overboard.0