I won't go into full details about why, but I'm preparing myself to break up with my boyfriend. For various reasons, it needs to come to an end.
Should I warn him? Should I just wait until we see each other next? I won't be seeing him for a few days but it will drive me insane until then.
Most Helpful Guy
Unless he's violent, I'd tell him changes are forthcoming and that you need a serious talk with him when he arrives. Tell him that you can't share the details until he's with you.
That way, he won't know exactly what you're about to say but he'll have a pretty good idea and probably he'll have thought out a response.
If he's prone to violence tell him in a public place where help is present. Maybe have a couple of friends at a table nearby in a coffee shop.
Have courage, girl.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think dragging it out until you see each other in person is necessary.. is there a reason you're waiting the next few days?
If you "warn him" you're already effectively breaking up with him, telling someone "hey just letting you know next time we see each other i'm going to leave you" isn't the nicest thing lol. (I know you won't say it that way, but for examples sake)
It'll also depend on your situation. If you want him to suffer for the next few days I can't say anything against that.1