I feel betrayed by him because after we broke up. He started to hang out with a girl who was pursuing him during our relationship. His friends say he was "rebounding" with her. This was from nov 2015 (when we broke up) until Feb 2015. He made out with her on their first date in his car and then something happened that made them not continue anymore. Then i posted pics with a guy friend. Guess he assumed he was my boyfriend or something. After sometime he entered a relationship a day after he said that was the last thing he wanted with a girl who has had a crush on him for 3 years, who he told me he had no feelings for which made it awkward. Apparently to everyone, he is trying to one up me. My friend is in his friend group so he knows that she tells me everything that goes on. She follows him on snap chat as well so he is posting snaps. I need to stop letting what he does affect me but how. I want to move on but my heart doesn't let me. i am holding on to anger etc
It's been 5 months already, I need to get over my first boyfriend?
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You might need a bit more time to get over your first love. It took me about 5-8 months to get over my ex. It hurt at first but in the end it was totally worth it. If you have him on any type of social media block him so you won't be anxious to look at his page or feed. If you have his number block it so you aren't tempted to call him at all. All these things really helped me a lot to get over my ex. If his friends want to rebound her that is up to them. You just focus on yourself and find things that make you happy. Act like he doesn't exist that helped me a lot as well. Keep yourself busy, go out with friends, spoil yourself, find a hobby that you have been wanting to try and stick to it. I know its hard to forget a first love trust me I've been there. But in the end you will feel so much better you won't even remember his number. Best of luck.1
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