So I am a quiet guy who keeps to himself and I also don't date much because I don't like dating. However, I tried dating an outgoing attractive girl at college. It didn't work well at all. I decided to break up with her today. I broke up with her because she tried to make me socialize with her friends, wanted me to stop gaming, cooked for me (I can do that myself), and was very aggressive in her personality. I told her that we weren't compatible because we are different people and I enjoyed my life without a woman in it (bad wording I now realize it). She got pissed off. What did I do wrong?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah bad wording. There like you said, you know what you did wrong.
Your reason is acceptable. But got wording is very wrong, it may translate to "dating you was a mistake" .
You should've put some effort and made it sound nicer.
But then again, given the bluntness, maybe you were in rage the moment you said that? So now that you're calmer, try apologizing and clearing up. Tell her you're not comfortable with her trying to change you... And all.
I'm giving you this tip since you seem to care.1
Most Helpful Guy
You tried to put a square peg in a round hole.1