I have always had a feeling that he was cheating but I never really asked anything so today for some reason I felt like checking his phone and I saw old msgs from October-December to a girl from work and he would call her babe and invite her out and leave work early to be with her send her pics and even gave her a gift for Christmas but I don't know what to do should I leave him?
Most Helpful Guy
at least confirm it if he cheated or not... Ask him2
Most Helpful Girl
I agree, I'd ask if he cheated to confirm. And at the very least confront that behaviour because that's still not acceptable when in a relationship. It's lying and sneaking. And while your behaviour wasn't 100% honest right in that situation either, it's the lesser of two evils in my opinion so if he tries to turn back onto you, then I'd say he's definitely cheating and you definitely deserve better.
But I agree, outright ask him first, don't mention seeing anything, just ask and see if he'll be honest first.1