Most Helpful Guy
hi 41 close to my age,,, Run Dump him or slow down big time,, him fear i bet is kicking his butt an lots of confusion now he, s seeing the big picture i think we all guilty of it at first its lust, then hopefully love but its kinda been proven in studys aprox 3 months the lust an great sex slows down an the bigger picture an thinking, the fears, confusion of kids moneys commentments i bet there so many things going on between his ears maybe give it time sounds like he needs it an if your worth it he well figure things out... whats the saying first three month is lust then reality kicks in
Most Helpful Girl
Why did you not say that he should not be reading into lack of communication? It seemed as if he was worried that you were backing off so maybe he was trying to protect himself or beat you to the punch. If you did and just left that out then I would say that it always seems guys are really into someone at first then they get scared or see things they actually do not like and then they leave. Women seem to be a little more cautious and then decide to let their guards down and start liking someone after a little while. At least in my experience, it seems by the time I decide I like someone, they are backing off. So, maybe that is what happened.