Most Helpful Guy
Why not just move on? If he dumped you, he's probably through with the relationship, at least for now. Let him do his own thing, you move on and do your own thing, and if your paths cross later on down the road and you both want to try again it might be more likely to work. Sometimes you have to lose something and have other experiences before you can appreciate what you had before. Let him date some other girls and be totally disappointed by them , let him see you dating other guys and having fun, then if you both end up single again a year or two down the road and you want to reach out and say "Hey, we should meet up for lunch sometime" and see where things go from there... you might have a better chance of making it work.
If you jump right back into it now, you might be OK for a short while, but the odds of it working long term are slim to none.
Most Helpful Girl
How are you not trying to sabotage it. If you were dating someone and you heard their ex was trying to plan for way for him to think about her again wouldn't you be pissed? Leave the man alone. He's moved on and you should too. If you want him back at least be respectful and wait until it's appropriate (aka he's single.)
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