He doesn't know what and let's try what
He doesn't know how to feel about your stuff staying there, so he just wants to try it out.
He kissed me after he gave me my things back though that's why I made that comment
Ok, you need to get your story straight! Re-read your statement! "if I left my things there"! You are asking hypothetically because you said "IF" you left your things there. Now you are talking in past tense because you are now changing your story that you DID leave your stuff there. If he was going to freak out, all your stuff would have been the garbage and he would not talk to you again. He kissed you! How is this so hard to figure out he is ok with it. Stop over thinking and over analyzing everything!
So I'm saying why isn't he wanting me to keep my things there?
Leaving stuff there is like you are sorta moving in and his place is slowly becoming "your" place too. It is also taking the relationship to a more serious level. These may be things he is just not ready for yet or is hesitant about.
We'll if I keep leaving my stuff there will he get mad?
This is where you need to read his body language and just a general feel of his attitude. I wouldn't show up with two suitcases full of clothes or anything extreme. Just leave a little bit to start with, like toiletries and a quick change of clothes. Go from there.
I am like one thing at a time nothing drastic like that but he keeps giving them back to me.
If he gives them back to you, that is his way of signalling he is not ready for you to share is space. Just give the relationship some more time.
Should I still leave stuff over there? I did make a comments "are you going to freak out if there here tomorrow" as he was giving me my things back and all he did was kiss me, what can that means?
Eh, I think he was politely saying "no".
How does a kiss say no?
The kiss is a distraction.
Well he's not getting mad
That's good, LOL!
So how is he saying no is my point?
Because he isn't saying yes, and kissing you his way to avoid the question.
But if he didn't want it he would get mad right? Or say something?
This depends on how patient he is, or how accommodating he is. He probably doesn't like it, but is trying to compromise and still be a nice guy to you.
Well isn't still a good thing? He wants to compromise
Yes, for sure!
Then why is it a negative thing you're saying?
Ok, you are still reading too much into this. I didn't say anywhere he is being negative. I have only said he isn't sure and he isn't saying yes, and he isn't say no. You are trying to figure out what that kiss meant and you are over thinking it now. You are bouncing back and forth between him accepting it and not accepting it. Because he didn't come right out and say it is ok with open arms shows he isn't ready yet. This doesn't mean anything negative. "Negative" is a word you are using to label this situation. He kissed you because he did not want to answer the question, that's all. Take it as you want. If you think that is a negative thing, then so be it. I am simply saying he isn't ready for that step yet and is trying to be nice about it, that's all.
Well I don't want to be pushy eighter
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