We officially broke up one week ago Friday. I do miss him greatly. We were really happy together and I saw us going for a long time. Anyway last night he texted me. It was 12;30 at night so i did not respond. I have not responded yet either but i will soon. He said " hey, I wanted to see how your doing" What could this mean? Im not trying to read too much into it and get my hope up but i do love him and do want a second chance. Could he miss me, want me back, just genuinly want to know or what? He was really stressed and one thing lead to another. He was stressed for a month and he said he felt we were not growing closer and he wasn't feeling what he thought he should. I think both were his faults bc he closed everyone out. He said it was nothing i did or didn't do it had to do with him. So could there possibly be a chance or what could he want? I am going to text him back in a few.
Ex boyfriend initiated contact first, what does he want?
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okay I say stand up for your self, as in, ask him straight, 'whats going on here?' id be inclined to ask/tell , I still care about you, and miss you, but I need you to give me space if you have stopped caring about me, which I resume because that's why we broke up? Or if you'd like to start talking again, then lets date again, but don't hurt me anymore than I am by giving me false hope, it makes getting over you so much harder''
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