How to tell your boyfriend we are not meant to be?Where he doesn't hurt himself, I have a fear of this.
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If he does not want the break-up, there is no great way to make him feel differently. I personally believe in the straightforward approach and I am not a fan of giving a bunch of reasons why. They always seem to backfire or the person will promise they can change.
Some people do the opposite and kind of make it so the other person wants to break-up with them. Not a fan of that personally, but I have had it done to me and I do know people that just cannot be the one to say it is over. Instead, they grow distant, do less and less with their partner and just become an unattractive partner overall in their attitude.0