I have been dating this guy for over four years and I am 18 years old. And he dumped me out of the blue for someone else at first than came back when he got rejected. And now we have been off and on. He says we can't be together because he is leaving for college and yet he says I just don't have those sexual feelings for you, but yet when were not together he begs for me back and misses me and says he loves me. But yet he wants to be my friend. Let me tell you I was his first girlfriend.. I truly thought he was the one? I quit don't understand any advice would be great!