So I've been texting a girl and I've realized that that's all that's happening. She texts me nearly every day then bails on dates she sets up. I really dislike texting and I'm not very interested in her but I don't want to be an A-Hole either. I just want the texting to end since none of this is going anywhere. It's starting to feel like a bothersome obligation. How can I get her to let things die without being a douche or just disappearing? We haven't been talking long just a few weeks.
Most Helpful Girl
Just straight up tell her - "hey, I want to go out but I don't want to just keep texting all the time, so either let's go out or let's stop talking". It's not being rude, it's being honest about what you want. Tbh she is being rude if she keeps bailing on your dates...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
Just be honest. Tell her that you've enjoyed texting with her, that she's an interesting person, but that you want a real relationship, but that she clearly doesn't.
Tell her that she has set up X number of dates and skipped on X% of them. Therefore you will not be texting her again.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE