should I message and call him? I want to send him funny memes and videos so he will remember the positive things about me.
Most Helpful Guy
Very sorry, that is painful.
If you didn't get a good explanation of why, you could try reaching out to him in a few days and say, Let it calm down first. "can we get together and talk." "I understand you decided to move on but I want to clear some things up. Then talk." Please don't text!
What did you argue about? Was there sex and then he broke up?
Most Helpful Girl
If you message him now, he's only going to see how desperate you are to get him back so if you want them back then you need to go 30 days no contact and even if you do not want him back you should still take the 30 days because that's pretty much the time it takes to fix yourself mentally, so take time to yourself, meditate, find new friends but do not and I repeat do not talk to him right now because it will only make things worse.