I'm totally confused..my babies daddy ex boyfriend left almost a year ago..left me for this married girl who h as 2 kids by her husband and for a whole year had told my ex that she was going to get a divorce and never did..the whole entire time she was going behind my ex trying to work things out with her husband and then when she got her husband back a month ago she was going behind her husbands back trying to be with my ex but besides the point through the whole entire time he hasn't left me alone...he has blocked my phone number so I have no way to get a hold of for the kids and things and when my number is unblocked he bugs me...he works 3rd shift and she works part time on 1st shift at school so when she's not around he bugs me...when you block a number the person that blocked your number can still call you...he would blow up my phone and when I would ignore it he would show up to my door...when he would see me he asks me so many ?s about my life and such...when he would come to my house he would search through my things and try and take my phone to go through it...he recently changed his phone number had to do something with Verizon and I didn't have his new number and I got a random Facebook message with a person you know that totally made a fake Facebook up with this number on it...the message was blank and the subject was the number so I called it and had calling restrictions so I gave the number to my friend and it was him...why is he acting like a fake person on Facebook giving me his number? and then last night he was instant messaging me calling me all these names and I never responded once...just recently he put on his MySpace that it was over between us so basically my ? after reading all this is why is he still bugging me if he says its over and he chose to go back to her after she cheated on her husband again with him? please help I'm beyond confused..we were together for 9 years and we have 3 kids together...the whole time he was cheating on her having sex with me and I know I'm stupid on that behalf to give in but he kept telling me he missed his family wanted to come back...told him if he really loved me then to let me go and he says that's hard and hard to stay away...and says he isn't over me and stuff...but if I don't bug him in any type of way..MySpace Facebook messaging phone calls nothing...I'm going my own way...why bug me still?
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i agree with "chelsea lately" ... that guy is a fool ...he wants you as back up ...he doesn't know what he had with you ...he obviously doesn't know what he wants in life and isn't finished fooling around he ignoring the fact ur the one for him and he's taking advantage by that by fooling around and he "THINKS" ur gonna still be in his life because ur still "there" so I think you should cut him off completely ...get a new number ...come off of Facebook for awhile ...and if he somehow gets in contact with you ...tell him listen you need to leave me alone you put a lot of heartache in my life and you constantly bothering me is gonna make it harder for me to get over you ..so f*** off ... :) that's it0