Most Helpful Guy
We broke up over a phone, I hung up and was like "Fuck yes, alone at last". Don't get me wrong the relationship wasn't working as I was doing all the work and she did not give a fuck about it, which made me want to break up. So if I put it into time it took me exactly 1 min to get over being single.
Most Helpful Girl
we were together for 7-8 months, but I only saw him frequently for the first 2-3 and then less and less. He was hurting me a lot during the time we were together, so I was already in the process of getting over him, relapsing a lot and going to see him over the course of 4 months. I haven't seen him in almost a month and I think I'm finally over it. It's all about how good the relationship is. I think this was just infatuation, although I'm still grateful for the experience. Never been in love for real, but I'm convinced that if I was in a real relationship I would never get over the other person. I just have a very addictive personality and I think it would take me a very long time to feel ok.