month and he remained in contact with his friends but not me. Until he saw me post something on fb about 2 weeks after he left and then messaged me constantly telling me how he "wanted me" asking for pictures, etc. Which I liked and was fine with. Then when he returned in January ofc I wanted to hook up with him again but he just shut me out. Saying "whatever happens, happens" I was confused because he chased me... So I didn't know what to think. I got upset and just did not say anything to him. On my birthday the 25th of January he messaged me asking to hangout again and I didn't want to because he shut me out with no explanation then expected me to just accept that he wanted me on his terms only. i haven't spoken to him until last week when I apologized for being immature about him shutting me out. And he said things happen and I don't need to apologize we spoke for a bit. And he said " I'm trying to focus on myself" now I don't wanna be a bitch or anything but I just wanna f*ck him again. I enjoyed it. But I really don't know how or if I should ask and we haven't spoken since last week. He does like to take control and lead but I don't wanna wait till he's ready. What should I do?
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