My last girlfriend broke up with me in November. She cut off contact with me and told. me she wanted me to move on because she didn't want me holding out hope for a future that couldn't happen. I moved on and met someone else. Now she's mad at me because I found someone else and didn't fight harder for her. She is now telling people I lied about how much I loved her if I can move on and not fight for her. The truth is, I loved her and I wanted nothing more than to stay with her. But she made it clear she didn't want me anymore. Moving on was best for me and her or so I thought. Had I fought for her I feel like I would have driven her away more and been creepy in the process. Is this a no win situation for me and would she have hated me no matter what I did?
Most Helpful Girl
... Moving on was best for me and her or so I thought...
No More thinking. You did the right thing. She had her Chance with More Romance and Blew it when she put her Size 8 in her Mouth and it ended up Going... South.
She is just a Sore Sport because she is Now Merely being Territorial. She doesn't want you and Doesn't want anyone else to have you Neither and for Now, Her claws are extended.
Case closed.. Ignore her.
Good luck. xx3
Most Helpful Guy
Tell her to move on, like she told you to do.
She dumped you, told you to take a hike and forget about her. So you did. Congrats! You did not waste time being depressed over a situation outside of your control. She was out to hurt you, and now she's upset because her attempt was unsuccessful and you are happy without her.
I would say that's a win situation for you.
Where's the loss in that? Because she's angry at you? Who gives a shit by this point? She has indicated she does not want to be with you, so tell her to take a hike.
I've done the same in the past. An ex-gf dumped me. Those relationships lasted 2 and 6 years. I am not the type to chase after someone after being rejected. I basically stopped talking to them the very next day and made no attempt to contact them. I don't know if they were angry after I found someone else... mainly because I never maintained contact. But then, they never tried to contact me either, so it would seem all parties are content.1