Most Helpful Guy
Time to move on don't let it drag out either the longer you let it and keep talking to him the longer its gonna take and the more its gonna hurt
Most Helpful Girl
Don't bother. To be completely honest I read about three of the back and forth instances and already decided this is not worth your time. Does it really matter understanding what his intentions were? His desire to be with you isn't strong enough to want to try and make it work now, and that should tell you more than enough to encourage you to move on. He can't just put you on hold and ask that you wait a year for whenever he's done fucking around to come back to you. He doesn't know what he wants and he's keeping you as a backup option. Don't let him have that. He might regret losing you in the future because he realized he fucked up when he had a good girl, but he's not going to miss you or want to change in a way that you are deserving of.