I was in a relationship and to make a long story short, she had BPD and was emotionally abusive. She destroyed my confidence and made me feel worthless. It has been a challenge getting that confidence back. I am with another woman now but I keep worrying I am not good enough and that she deserves better. I also feel stupid that love blinded me and allowed me to go along with the emotional abuse and manipulation for so long. Has anyone else experienced this?
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That sucks, I sympathize... here's what worked for me.
Get out of all relationships (I know you said your are in one now, but you dont sound like you are ready) think long and hard... piece it together I know you said you know you were just abused into thinking you wern't good enough... you need to reason through that until you believe it! Once you REALLY know what happened, you can prevent it from happeneing again. For a lot of guys they fall into that trap of the measure of thier worth is the ammount of approval they get from a woman, this is not the case.
I really have more thoughts on this issue then will fit here in this window... if you want to know more please message me. I sympathize with your situation, I have been there, I will help if I can.0