Most Helpful Guy
the relationship seems doomed... you can either cut ties now or cut ties later, one way or the other, this is gonna end. seems like the love is one sided, also seems like both of you are clinging to something that ain't there. I'd say because of fear, but i don't know you guys...
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know the right answer, but do NOT let upcoming events, such as a wedding to attend, affect the way in which you break up with him. You both deserve an honest conversation with dignity and respect, and choosing the right time to do it should be based around the soonest, most appropriate way, without any regard to trips or weddings. Your heart and his heart deserve the truth first and foremost.