Breaking up with boyfriend of 3 years?

Anonymous
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years. For the past several months we have gotten into many arguments and breaking up has come up. He says he doesn't know who he is and loves me but doesn't feel in love with me but he can't imagine not having me in his life. He is my best friend and I also cannot imagine being with him and talking everyday but I don't think it's fair to stay with someone that isn't in love with me and sure of our relationship. On top of that, as of now he doesn't want children or to be married. I have also invited him to go on trips with me and he always declines my invitation saying it's too serious however I go with him wherever he asks me too without hesitation. I don't live close to him and we also have events coming up such as a wedding. I don't know if I should wait to do this until after the trip/wedding? I am very unsure of what to do
Breaking up with boyfriend of 3 years?
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