Guys, Help!!! Would you break up with your girlfriend that you love a lot because she is always asking you about the future and getting married?
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I wouldn't break up with her but I would be upfront with her that I'm not there yet. Some people just don't think as far ahead, and if you think he's worth waiting for then you shouldn't pressure him. Unless he's saying things like "I don't see myself getting married like ever", it's really up to you if you want to stick around for him.
"your mindset should be for ever situation you guys face" -- to simply put it, that's just not possible. No one can control the future, and there's only so much you can plan for. If you're asking him to plan things month in advance that's probably justifiable, but if you're asking him to tell you what he's going to do in a few years? Well let's just say a lot can happen in a few years.
I broke up with a woman who desperately wanted to get married, but I broke it off for more than just that. Her mother even offered to give us a house if we got married. But she was also a doormat for people. She let her family run all over her. After we broke up, she soon after married another guy, who wound up cheating on her with her brother's 16 year old step daughter. When he got the girl pregnant, he left my ex to be with the 16 year old. So if someone is in a big rush to get married, I certainly would have to think what their true motives might be.
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