My ex and I have been seperated for a year and a half now. I cheated and she left. We have 2 children together. I have asked her about working things out and she has said no. We speak very frequently and still hang out as a family regularly. Last week she asked me to go with her and the girls to her friends daughters christening. Yesterday she asked me to go with her to her cousins bday. If she doesn't want to work things out why does she ask me to go with her and act like a family when we are not? Don't know what to do. I love her and want my family back but I don't know what she's thinking. Any advice?