Most Helpful Guy
Don't add fuel to the fire by trying to talk to him. Respect his feelings whatever they may be. And go to work on your own mind. You are probably upset over the breakup or the fight, so let yourself take the time to get back on an emotional even keel.
The trick is to focus your own mind and not try to figure theirs out. Every time you find yourself things like "why is h (not) doing so and so" the smile and shrug it off, and quiet your mind. Find a place of natural happiness and just wait. The good things will come to you when you're happy.
Sappy I know but it's true...
Most Helpful Girl
Stop bugging him and let him come to you.