Is it ever ok to tell ex I miss them. Kind of confused about our situation but want him to know?
What Guys Said 1
This is going nowhere. You need to get out and stay out. These on/offs never last
What Girls Said 1
He knows you still care because you're still messaging him. You asked if he was safe and he shut you down. You're holding onto the false hope that he's going to say the same back. If he wanted to have you back he would do everything in his power to.
Guys want what they can't have. Ex's in particular seem to have this uncanny sense of when we're moving on and then get in touch with us. Right now the best thing you can do is be civil when he messages you, reply and tell him how great your life currently is (if he asks). Keep yourself busy and try new things! Look your best wherever you go and you'll get the confidence boost you need to ignore him. You won't even have time to think of him.
You deserve to be loved in the way you're willing to love someone else. He sounds too immature to be able to give that to you. Move on for now, go on a few first dates with other guys (when you're ready to). He needs to realise that you're not going to wait around for him. Only then is he going to chase you.
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