Its quite simple, met a nice girl about a month first few dates went well, there's good chemistry , good conversation and everything is going well. So anyway I told her I liked her and she reciprocated told her I wanted to keep seeing her and she said she did as well but that she didn't want to be exclusive. That kind of threw me. I realize we are only just getting to know each other and I am in no rush but does her wanting to be exclusive mean that she wants to meet other guys as well and just string me along. She's told me she wouldn't do that , that's its more she wants to go with the flow and see what develops. I'm nervous as hell and wonder should I break up with her or stop seeing her to protect my heart from getting hurt, I like her now, can only imagine it might get harder the longer it goes on.
Any advice or opinions
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She wants to keep her options open. Judging by the way she introduced the idea at the early stages of courtship, my guess, she's been hurt in the past and wants to take things slow. It becomes a lot easier to get to know a person when emotions are not invloved. Emotions can 'blind' an individual to a lot of things! I think she's a smart girl! If I were you, I would just relish the moment, and see where it leads. try not to think about it too much. And NO... running is not the solution. It's actually rather juvenile if you ask me. The two of you just started dating...She's digging you, you're digging her, sit back, relax, and enjoy it!1