Me and this guy have been dating but now we kinda broke up. The worst thing is he didn't directly tell me he wanted to break up he just completely ignored me which hurts a lot, considering he told me he really likes me and that he loves me and that I'm special to him and other stuff like this. I don't get why he would do this, like literally everything was going okay and then one day he starred acting different and ignored me, right now I feel really hurt and sad and depressed , I also feel worthless ugly and just everything bad :( why would you think he would do this? What should I do? How can I get over him?
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Most people will tell you that in order to get over someone, the best way is to get under someone else.
This is actually really shitty advice because distractions do not solve problems, they only table them for another time.
The best way to get over a bad breakup is to plant your feet, face it head on and ACTUALLY deal with the problem. Look at the problem in a critical light, see what you can learn from it and realize that it's okay to be upset and alone with your thoughts, and above all else, make sure you're TRULY ready as an individual to see someone new, not just use them as your rebound.0
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