We've been broken up for over a year it was his choice, but he always kept it contact with me. He does tend to come in and out of my life. He's always told me how much he still loves me and never wants to lose me. I miss him but I will never initiate contact with him.
Most Helpful Guy
it sounds like he's just not really committed one way or the other. he's got his foot halfway out the door. my general feelign when a person does this is that they aren't truly into the person but rather want to try and keep the door open (most likely while he sees what is out there).
i think for your sake you need to draw a clear line that says we are either this or that but we can't keep straddling this fence of hot and cold
Most Helpful Girl
He comes in and out of your life because you let him. Personally, I don't tolerate that kind of inconsistency because it creates a messy pattern.