Wanting to reach out to my ex. Bad idea?

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Wanting to reach out to my ex. Bad idea?

Me & my ex broke up a month ago, (he's 32, I'm 28), because his life is a mess & he can't look after himself, let alone anyone else. He doesn't take responsibility for anything (money, future plans) & is a bit of a loner. He says he never really likes anyone & was so happy when he met me. But it doesn't mean I don't still love him. Before we broke up he started smoking hash a lot & he gets tired from work & falls asleep so easily. He may have been depressed. He never seems to be online. I can see when he's on whatsapp & he's hardly ever on, but it drives me crazy, because I want to talk to him. Part of me wants to reach out as a friend, which seems like a crazy thing, but just this no contact, is so hard. I last told him that I want him to be happy. He says he can't bare to break up or deal with things & it hurts every time he thinks about it. He hasn't got many friends & no family around him. How do I move on & stop the urge to contact him? I know he is wrong for me, but also we were so close as just us in our own world. Shall I stay strong, even though I feel like this?
Wanting to reach out to my ex. Bad idea?
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