So my boyfriend of 2 years, left me last night. Now let me give you some background information about our relationship. He is very controlling. He won't let me wear makeup, shorts, even sandals in public. And when a boy in school takes a picture of me and puts it on snapchat, my boyfriend would get really mad and call me a cheater etc. So our relationship was pretty serious. I did everything he asked. And I love him to death. He can really piss me off sometimes but I've never loved someone so much. We argue A LOT. But we always made up in the end and never split. Made a lot of promises that we would stay together through everything. So yesterday morning he snap chatted me and asked me what I was wearing. I got mad of course because I already showed him prior to when he asked. So I said "clothes". And what did he do? Went nuts and called me a f**king smart mouth. So yesterday all day long he was just talking about leaving me and calling me a smart mouth. Even called me a thot at one point. And let me tell you something else. I gave up all my friends for him! All my passwords deleted all my social media and everything so he would trust me. He never let me delete his, and I had found out last week that while we were together he was talking to a girl about having sex. But I always stay with him. Because I made a promise to him. He told me he would fix it. But anyways things were going a lot better this week and then the whole smart mouth situation happened and he messaged me and said bye, and knowing me I replied to him saying I love you and sent him 5 other messages. All of them were ignored. So what I'm asking is what should I do? What can I do to get him back? I love him with all my heart but I understand he is just going to hurt me, I guess I just need some genuine words of advice because I'm so full of negative emotion
Most Helpful Guy
i gt one question for you, why are you even with this loser? its not love your feeling its all you have known from an abusive prick. now i know your gonna say i dont know him he is sweet etc. that all is bull crap if he is treating you like that. marrying this guy would be the biggest mistake i oyur life. you need to get away from this and let him some other person to be a jerk to.
i know plenty of girls in your situation that end up in the hospitl fro, a guy like him and you will be next without a doubt if you dont jsut go and find a new guy. be smart about this and get a better life wit a better guy.
your young enough to be able to still have a life dont let this prock take it from you. and ignore his sad sb stories its what all controlling guys do when they dont won't to loose control over the girl they have under there thumb.
any girl with a brain will tel you the same thing get away from the prick before he hurts you.2
Most Helpful Girl
First off, I don't see why you'd want someone like that in your life, sure you love him and adore him BUT his actions really show that he just likes to control you, you basically are a door mat and do everything he says, does he do the same? Do you ever accuse him of cheating etc. Why are you accepting this as good behaviour? I don't know any female or anyone for a matter of fact who would accept this behaviour in their relationship. Its good he let you go because you wouldn't have had the guts to stand up of yourself, he did you a favour in the end. Girl you need someone whose caring, who makes you happy, who respects you and trusts you to make your own decisions. You can get through it, trust me when you find someone who actually treats you well you'd be disgusted about your ex.2