My ex broke up with me because I have this issue with chatting with other girls. I realize my problems and I am finally seeking help. She kicked me out of the house. We were together for 7 years and have two kids. It's been a month and I want to fix things with her but it seems like I get no where with her. She says she is fine with the break up and is happy about the decision but is stressed about bills but has a piece of mind, but I see in her eyes and experissions that it's different. We were meant to be together we made a great team hardly fought besides little things and my needing to talk to others. I am at a loss here I'm trying to be better and change for the better I sent her a heart felt apology saying that no matter what it takes I'm going to make it right. I see her on a daily basis because of the kids. She says things like if we get back together you won't have friends for a while nor would I trust you or if we work on things you won't move back right away, but than I get a cold shoulder. How can I get my foot in the door to make things right. I'm changing for the better and I want her to see that and trust me that I truly want this. I'm a great guy but I have issues that I'm working on. When I tell her that I want to get married and have another baby like we had talked about she says it's a nice idea but doesn't know anymore.. Please help me I don't want to lose her forever. I know I'll get a lot of bad comments but I hope there are some good ones in there
Most Helpful Girl
I am very sorry you're going through this---but I have a few questions.
You said she is stressed out about bills. Are you working? Do you provide for the children? Do you help with the bills? Do you give her money? I find it very hard to believe that she would break up with you for just "chatting" with other women. Are you having extreme "chats" with these women?0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, it's hard for a couple to work on anything if both partners are not willing to put in the effort. Sure it was your fault but the fact is you realize it and are making a strong effort to correct the problem. Now on the other hand she needs to really see that you are giving 100% and should be a little more understanding to your actions to remedy the situation. I say do what you have to, if you feel so strongly for someone anything is worth the effort but at the same time it might not feel too great to know the other person is not really appreciate what you are doing.0