I have tried cutting off contact with her. I have talked to people about it. I have tried finding someone else. I have even tried to avoid her. I am so despite to get over her. I have tried to get over her around 8 times with the longest time being over a 3 months period. However I always manage to crawl back to her. It has being happening for over year and a half. The worse part is that she keeps telling me she's fine with me being obsessed with her. She is actually ruining my life. If you know anything that could help me, or anything you did to get over someone, at this point anything will be helpful.