So ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago for him not feeling like we connecting and him not feeling what he thinks he should. His fault I think he closed everyone out for about a month when he was stressed for not having jobs. Anyway since breakup i saw him twice. he not the type of guy to use someone and do those things. He is a great guy and I dont want to think that but I know it happened. Anyway we had sex 2 weeks after break up and then he asked to hang this past Sunday and we wound up doing it again. Both time I slept over. He was the one to initiate contact after breakup. He started texting once a eek and then more than once a week. Now this past time we had sex and now I have not talked to him since. Can I tell him how it makes me mad and how I still feel and feel that he's doing this to me. I feel like I just need to get it out in the open and thats it. Although I do love him and want him back I know if he wanted it it would have happened so it is what it is. So i am asking is it dumb to tell him how this is all making me feel?
Used by ex, Can I tell him how it makes me feel, I just need to get it out in the open?
What Guys Said 1
no it isn't be open and up front with the guy, playing around with words instead of jsut telling him will confuse the hell out of him and make it worse for you if he wants more not understanding what it is your giving him emotionally, not sexually. though most teens dont get that. there has to be a talking point so there won't be any mixed signals.0
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What Girls Said 2
You made a wrong decision by going back to him in the first place and having sexual intercourse with him. Now it just seems as if you were just his sex buddy and he only wanted to link up with you also got in touch with you just for pleasure knowing that he probably had 100% guarantee that you would've gave him what he wanted. Telling him how you feel isn't going to change the situation because again you guys aren't together and you telling him your feelings he can acknowledge you then suddenly use you for sex again till he wares you out of feeling the way you're feeling then drop you for good.0
Not at all. Its dumb not to tell him in my opinion0
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