I have been seeing a girl for almost 1.2 years and i kinda feel things have fizzled out and i feel controlled by her. I don't want to break her heart or anything like that. Honestly i just want the relationship to end. What is the best way for me to tell her that?
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Sit her down and be this Honest John with her and level with Her... I just feel this is the best thing to do, hun, to take some time for myself away from you.
Tell her you want A "Break" to Begin your new Beguine. Instead of just Ending this long term relationship, Give yourself Time by Taking some Space without seeing her Face and then you can Decide if you want to take the long Ride and Then... Tell her if this is what you Do want, To tell her you have Decided that the Break you took did you some good and you don't want to be tied down right now but you were hoping you both could be friends.
Of course no matter how you Slice the not so Sweet cake, She will not take it well. However, Something has to be done, For this is very unhealthy and if you have Exhausted every other Way, Then First Try the Break Today.
Good luck. xx1
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