Was with my boyfriend 1.5 years. For the past 6 months he treated me like dirt - and I was too in love to question it. I'd go weeks without seeing him, because he'd bin me off for nights out, turn his phone off and disappear until a day or two later then expect me to be lovey towards him. He's told me i'm a waste of time and space, that i'm a bore to his life, that he doesn't have time for me anymore and that he wish i'd fuck off for good.. oh and that he's going to fuck other people.
This has broken me as a person, I used to be a strong minded girl who spoke her mind, but now i feel like an empty shell.
Lastnight was the final straw, the cycle repeated - we were supposed to be having a nice evening just me and him, and he ditches me last minute.. and makes me feel bad about it (how I have no idea but I ended up apologising).
I told him I was done and not to contact me, he spent the night texting me, accusing me.. then today texting and calling me.. then the minute I reply, I get nothing.
Why is he playing games? Any insight would be good!
Most Helpful Guy
It's more a female thing to " want what they can't have " , women find attached men more attractive than single men , it's " Pre Selection " in action.
My question to you is , what the hell are you still doing with this excuse for a " man " ? He has basically told you to F off. Delete his details & ignore him from now on. Stay single & rebuild your smashed up self esteem , focus on your self. Seem you have been infected by " Bad Boy " syndrome & been sucked in by him. On the bright side if / when you are ready to date again , a woman in your age group is in high demand.0
Most Helpful Girl
Please save your life and leave him already! 6 months is no jokes. Would you be happy to spend the rest of your life with a man like that? I couldn't even call him a man. He sound so insecure and he hides his insecurity by pulling you down and putting all the blame on you. Start dating someone else and settle with the one who will bring out the best in you.0