Ive been in this relationship for 4 and a half years . I've gotten used to her so much that I can't think of a day without her . I recently shifted from that city . I'm suppose to stay for a year over here as I am working . she recently called me one day and told me that she doesn't see a future with me and she can't talk to me again . And this was the same day she returned from her college trip from Malaysia . Which gets me even more curious . she told me she is confused .
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I wouldn't assume there is another guy, as cam1423 suggests.
I'm willing to bet she went on that trip and had fun, sure... but she probably also discussed her current long distance relationship status with her friends. And chances are, her friends encouraged her to call it off, stating the ever-so-common "long distance never works" phrase.
She's probably overwhelmed thinking about just how much work this long distance thing may be, and how it may actually fall through.
Just give her time. Do *not* assume there is someone else unless you have a more legitimate reason to have such a suspicion.
She's scared, has a lot going on, and her boyfriend of 4 1/2 years just left and will be gone for a year. She surely needs to do some processing.
Maybe she will realize that she loves you, and distance or not, you guys will make it work.
Or maybe the move will cause you two to realize that you are not meant to be after all.
"Distance does to love what wind does to fire, extinguishes the weak, and ignites the strong"0